Toys for children work like tools, they teach them something so that they can grow and move forward. If they learned the lesson and they don´t continue to grow with that tool, staying with this tool doesn´t make any sense and they can move on.
Food, locations, activities, projects, concepts, jobs, relationships, communities, all the circumstances are tools for adults and they function in a similar way: they teach us something so that we can grow and move forward. If we learned the lesson and we don´t continue to grow with that specific tool, staying with this tool doesn´t make any sense and we can move on.
Doesn´t sound romantic and triggers the fuck out of you? Yes, I feel you!
In the past, I was the master of staying with outgrown circumstances.
Often way too long!
I was really super stubborn. And so I needed very strong mirrors to finally get the messages.
The more I´m present now in every single moment, it becomes crystal clear when something does feel like a completion of a learning process, a beautiful full circle. In this moment, the old circumstances don´t serve me any more and I don´t serve them.
It feels very obvious that they are no relevant part of my evolution any more at this point. I extracted the inherent meaning of this mirror.
These days this whole process speeds up and intensifies collectively, very fascinating to observe. We are accelerating fast, we are outgrowing fast. The new normal.
So get used to it. Don´t fear the change when you learned what you needed to learn. Appreciate it and move on.